Navigating Sadness: Understanding and Overcoming Emotional Struggles
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Chapter 1: Recognizing Emotions
Why do I feel sad? This question often plagues me. Although I'm gradually feeling better and becoming more engaged in activities I love, sadness still lingers. I find myself reflecting daily on my emotional state.
For over ten days, I’ve experienced varying degrees of sadness. While it no longer overwhelms me, I can’t claim to be the joyful person I used to be. I won't dwell on my current feelings; instead, I ponder what emotion I wish to embrace.
Once I identify that desired emotion, I ask myself the crucial question: What small action can I take right now to shift my feelings? I commit to one actionable step that will help me transition from my current state. Although a single step may not completely lift my spirits, I refuse to let sadness consume me. By making a daily effort, I believe I can gradually reach the emotions I seek.
Just as we can be harmed by a multitude of small cuts, we can also heal through countless gentle touches. This is a mantra I remind myself of frequently.
Section 1.1: The Importance of Self-Soothing
From a young age, we often hear messages to just "get over it" when feeling down. We are told that life is unfair and to toughen up. Unfortunately, these messages can lead us to suppress our emotions through unhealthy coping mechanisms like overeating or seeking fleeting pleasures.
To achieve long-term emotional health, we must acknowledge our feelings. Comforting ourselves is essential; this can be done through simple self-soothing activities such as gently stroking our hands. This skin-on-skin contact triggers a sense of safety and can be done discreetly in public.
Subsection 1.1.1: Practicing Non-Judgment
When I check in with my feelings, I do so without judgment. My sadness is valid, and I allow myself to experience it without delving into the reasons behind it. Understanding my emotions fosters self-awareness rather than self-criticism. It's important to recognize that not every moment needs to be filled with happiness; the goal is to acknowledge what we feel.
Section 1.2: Taking Action
My aim in this practice is to engage in one activity today that will elevate my mood. It's unrealistic to expect constant happiness; that would be draining. However, perpetual sadness is equally exhausting.
I often struggle with feelings of inadequacy, shame, and overwhelm, and I yearn for a sense of accomplishment, joy, and prosperity. Shifting my focus towards positive emotions helps regain my motivation and drive. By fostering a sense of positivity, I create a momentum that encourages further positive feelings.
Chapter 2: The Cycle of Emotions
If I remain entrenched in sadness, it can become my default state. By actively pursuing positive emotions, I increase the likelihood of returning to a more joyful disposition as my circumstances evolve.
Event + Response = Outcome
While I cannot alter the events that occur in my life, I can choose how I respond to them. This choice can lead to a more favorable outcome—a principle I continuously remind myself of.
Like many topics related to emotional well-being, this is part of my journey of understanding and growth. I am eager to hear from others who have faced similar challenges or who have had different experiences. We can learn immensely from each other, and what works for one may be helpful for another.
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