Chapter 1: The Journey of Social Skills Development

Many of us often associate our identities with our shortcomings, but there is a straightforward solution to overcome this mindset.

Reflecting back to my youth, from age 12 to 18, I spent the majority of my time at home, engrossed in YouTube videos and video games. This lifestyle resulted in most of my friendships being online, which inhibited my ability to cultivate strong social skills and led to feelings of social anxiety.

One aspect I eagerly anticipated in New Zealand was the chance to meet new people and enhance my social abilities. During my first week in a hostel in Christchurch, I vividly recall an evening when the atmosphere was lively with a party. Everyone seemed to be mingling, drinking, and having a good time.

To me, it felt like everyone was already acquainted, and my shy attempts to engage in conversations fell flat. Overwhelmed by the situation, I retreated to my room, feeling dejected and frustrated. There I was, in an ideal environment to step outside my comfort zone, yet I found myself hiding away. In that moment of reflection, I turned to Google and purchased "How to Win Friends and Influence People" on my Kindle.

The realization dawned on me: the key to overcoming my dilemma was enhancing my social skills through gradual exposure and practice. Fast forward five months; I returned to that same hostel before heading back to Germany.

One day, while dining in a small outdoor area, I joined a group of six or seven people. They immediately engaged me in conversation, and since they appeared to be unfamiliar with one another, the focus naturally shifted to me.

Then it struck me: "How is it that I feel at ease with seven strangers paying attention to me and seemingly enjoying what I have to say?" The transition from feeling anxious in social settings to experiencing enjoyment and comfort took just five months of consistent practice.

Whatever skills you believe you lack, remember that you simply need more practice and experience. Transformation is possible for everyone.

See you tomorrow.

Your self-mastery coach, Max

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Chapter 2: Conquering Assessments and Challenges

As I continued my journey, I encountered various assessments that tested my skills and resilience.

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