Make Your Voice Heard: 10 Strategies to Speak Up in Meetings
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Chapter 1: Feeling Invisible in Meetings
Have you ever experienced the frustration of feeling unheard in meetings? Like you're silently pleading for attention? You're definitely not the only one. In every meeting environment, from boardrooms to virtual calls, there’s often someone struggling to contribute.
But don’t despair, quiet achiever. Whether you're facing a talkative colleague or grappling with self-doubt, grab a drink, get comfortable, and let’s explore how to change that narrative.
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Ten Strategies for Effective Participation
Speak Clearly and Confidently
To ensure you're heard, you need to project your voice confidently. Avoid mumbling; articulate your thoughts clearly and maintain eye contact. If on a video call, ensure you're close to the microphone and avoid technical glitches.
Arrive Early and Position Yourself Wisely
Getting to the meeting early allows you to sit near key decision-makers. This way, you're more likely to catch their attention. For virtual meetings, join promptly, turn on your video, and ensure you’re visible.
Prepare Thoroughly
The best way to gain respect in meetings is to be well-prepared. Familiarize yourself with the agenda, anticipate questions, and have your facts ready. Speak with confidence, and if possible, support your points with data.
Utilize Effective Body Language
Your body language communicates even when you’re silent. Sit up straight, lean slightly forward, and actively engage by nodding and taking notes. If you're on video, ensure your camera is well-angled and maintain eye contact.
Find a Supportive Ally
Team up with a colleague who shares your perspective. Before the meeting, agree to support each other’s contributions. This way, when you speak up, they can reinforce your points, making it harder for others to dismiss you.
Choose the Right Moment to Speak
Timing is crucial. Avoid interrupting others; instead, wait for a natural pause to add your thoughts. If someone dominates the discussion, look for an opening and politely interject.
Be Concise
Aim to be succinct. Most people have limited attention spans, so try to express your ideas in a single, impactful sentence before elaborating if necessary.
Follow Up After the Meeting
Afterward, send a brief email summarizing the key points discussed and your contributions. This not only reinforces your ideas but also provides you with a record of your input.
Engage in One-on-One Conversations
If group settings are challenging for you, consider connecting with decision-makers individually. Casual discussions over coffee can provide a platform for sharing your ideas without competition.
Practice Your Delivery
Like any skill, articulating your thoughts improves with practice. Before the meeting, rehearse what you plan to say, refine your points, and time your delivery to ensure clarity and confidence.
A Case Study: Meet Dave
Imagine Dave, a 32-year-old software developer at a fintech startup. He has brilliant ideas but struggles to express them assertively. During weekly meetings, he often finds himself overshadowed by more vocal colleagues.
One day, motivated to change, Dave seeks out Sarah from UX to discuss his ideas. With her support, he arrives early to the next meeting and sits next to the product manager. As Chad begins his usual monologue, Dave gathers the courage to speak up, and with Sarah’s encouragement, he shares his insights.
After the meeting, he follows up with an email summarizing his points. By the end of the day, his idea is approved. Dave realizes he can be assertive when he puts his mind to it.
Conclusion: Take Action
Being heard in meetings isn’t as complex as it seems, but it does require effort. Like Dave, you need to push past your discomfort. It might feel strange initially, but you’ll adapt.
Remember, in meetings, those who remain passive often fade away. Speak up, assert yourself, and don’t allow others to dominate the conversation. And if all else fails, remember the age-old trick of cornering someone by the snack table—people are much more receptive when there’s a treat involved.
Now go ahead, make your voice heard. Your ideas deserve recognition!
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